Sharmene & Jarryd

I think there’s a part of everyone that wants get married on a tropical desert island. Perhaps it’s the idea of escaping it all and being free from our concrete jungles to be surrounded by ocean, sand and palm trees – the ACTUAL jungle. Sharmene is from the Philippines, but ultimately what led this couple to get married here was essentially that – ‘why not!?’.

The Palawan is a paradise like no other. To me it feels pure, clean and untouched. It’s warm but the sun is gentle, the water is refreshingly cool, but not ice cold. A gentle breeze dances in the air, just enough to tickle the giant palms. The Palawan is one of the few places I’ve been to on Earth that doesn’t feel conquered by man. It’s unspoilt. I felt humbled by its grandeur. Being there your mind bends comprehending the the millions of years it took for the ocean to slowly carve away the limestone rock columns that tower above the ocean. The flying fish skipping across the water point to an intricate and incomprehensible ecosystem residing below the shiny surface of the crystal clear waters. You can probably tell, the Palawan spoke loudly to me, but that’s just one pillar of this story…

Sharemene & Jarryd are ‘real’ people. They have a grounded perspective on life few of us grasp. Having adopted Sharmene’s younger sister, life catapulted these guys quickly into adulthood. As a result these two feel like old souls, mature far beyond their years. They have calm, kind, peaceful souls. Despite me being a touch older than these two, I left the Philippines admiring them. I hope as you enjoy their story and that you will fall in love with them, just as I did.

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Maristella & Chris

I have wanted to shoot a wedding in the US for a long time. I even have a US passport (thanks Mum!). These things can’t be forced though. The timing has to be right.

It was clear the time was right when Maristella, Chris and I had a little video chat online and introduced our respective pooches. Yes, the picture that you have in your mind of us awkwardly holding our disinterested canines up to the camera is spot on. We had to make this happen.

Not only that, but my good buddy Jared decided to come along for the ride which made it extra fun. He’s one half of legendary wedding videography team Humdrum Films. On this occasion though he nominated himself has humble bag carrier, lighting assistant and caffeine supplier. He also kindly escorted me from a dive bar when my innocent and inquisitive discussion about Donald Trump with a rather inebriated and outspoken patron started to go downhill rapidly ?

The instant rapport was there when Maristella, Chris, Jared and I met in the flesh for the first time in a carpark in Joshua Tree across the road from Quiznos. Lots of laughs (mainly at our accents I think), but also what was apparent was how warm, gentle and at ease these two are in each others presence. It’s clear they are each others safe place. Furthermore, they have both experienced losing someone close to them which no doubt cements their connection. With myself having lost someone myself, that relatability allowed me to reach to the deeper, more complex layers that exist in any story.

As a photographer with a love of capturing human spirit and connection I couldn’t ask for anything more…

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